If a teacher discovers that a student is involved in a romantic relationship, they might say:

- I have noticed that you are in a relationship with [name]. Is this true?

- I wasn't expecting to find out that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend at such a young age.

- I worry that being in a relationship might affect your academic performance or distract you from your studies.

- It's important to focus on your education right now and not let relationships get in the way.

- Let's talk about setting boundaries and making sure that your relationship doesn't interfere with your school responsibilities.

- Remember that there's plenty of time for dating later in life. Right now, your education is the priority.